A common problem with home care services is that aging adults don’t like the sound of them. Your senior may not understand what senior care providers do or she may worry that you’re abandoning her to strangers. Regardless of the cause, you need to work past those misconceptions.
Go Slowly with Everything
Rapid changes are not going to help at all. Going as slowly as possible is going to be the better option in this situation. The idea here is to give your elderly family member as much time as possible to get accustomed to the idea and to realize why this is something helpful. When you do introduce actual home care providers, do so for only a short period of time.
Make a List of Reasons for Extra Help
Once your elderly family member understands why this is beneficial, she may well come around. Toward that end, it’s a good idea to give her as full a list as possible of reasons that this extra help is useful. If your elderly family member doesn’t want to hear about ways that this can help her, focus your list on ways that they can help you.
Try to Avoid Outright Lying
Some people might tell you to make up whatever you need to make up in order to help your senior to accept the idea of home care providers. This is dangerous, though, because often even white lies can be found out quite easily. You’re trying to foster a relationship of trust with your family member. Lying about the home care services that you both need is not a good way to do that. Once trust is broken, your elderly family member may find it difficult to believe anything you have to say.
Give Your Senior Some Options
Your senior may feel out of control with this situation. If you can allow her to have as many options as possible, it can be much easier to earn her agreement. For instance, you might compromise and allow her to select specific days to be trial days for senior care providers. Once she feels more comfortable, you might be able to be more flexible about timing.
If your elderly family member is still upset about the idea of having elder care providers around, try to get to the bottom of those feelings. She may be able to eventually break it down for you in a way that you can understand and do something about.
If you or an aging loved one are considering elder care in Bordentown, NJ, please call the caring staff at Care Street Home Care. You can reach our Mercer/Burlington Division at (609) 496-5666.
Dr. Shelly, as he is fondly known, has served as an Alzheimer’s Support Group Facilitator in Mercer County and is a Certified Dementia Instructor. Knowledgeable, compassionate, and unusually devoted, his guidance is crucial in helping families understand their options and render decisions for their loved ones’ care plan. Dr. Shelly’s extensive experience, sincere and pleasant demeanor, and professional affiliations have made him a vital asset to Care Street.
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